This One's for Mom & Dad

I have the best family in the entire world… this is something that I’ve always known, but every once in a while, this becomes incredible obvious again.

A little while ago, some of the managers from work when out for a cocktail. I rarely join them, but this time I went. It was getting late and there were just a few of us left. We started talking about our immediate families. One individual, who seems to be a very happy, content person, started talking about how he was looking forward to going home in a couple of weeks. When asked if he had any plans, he said that he didn’t but he was sure that somewhere he would become annoyed and regret going. His parents are divorced and his siblings, both younger, are having difficulties. He said that when his family gets together, everyone acts as though they get along but really speak badly of each other behind their backs.

I can honestly say that this is by no means the first time that I have heard comments to this effect with various families.

He then asked about my family. With almost a guilty feeling, I explained that my parents are together and that we all get along. As sincere as he could be, he said that was really great. This got me thinking… my family really isn’t all that huggy or overly expressive. We barely exchange gifts at Christmas. Am I missing something in my “perfect little family” picture?

I think the answer is “no.” I think that my family’s lack of outward affection is an indicator of how comfortable we are with each other. I see my sister, Teresa, and brother, Brian, MAYBE once per year. I see my parents a little bit more often, but not much. When we do get together, or talk on the phone, it’s like not a single day has passed. They are my supportive, intelligent, caring, entertaining, wonderful family. I guess just knowing that we are available for each other, even if we are separated by distance, is like they are with me every day.